Choices

I think am paranoid about letting new people enter my life. I truly believe that we all have our own aura and energy. Hence when we allow a person to become part of our lives, somewhere that person's energy mingles with our energy. It may have a positive impact on us or a negative impact and if it's the latter then it does make us lose a grip on our lives. I think past experience has made me more and more cautious because it is immensely difficult to get rid of the vicious cycle of negativity. Some of us emerge victorious..while some lose themselves, lose their vision, lose their sense of purpose. 
One should guard one's life/heart because it affects everything else we do. But then it might make one reserve and anti social. It's all about which path we choose and which path would maintain our peace of mind.